நல்லதை மட்டும் எடுத்துக்கொள்வது(positive approach) – சாத்தியமா?

Updated on June 27, 2020 in General
8 on June 24, 2020

நமஸ்காரம் ஸ்வாமி. அநேக மங்களாசாசனம்.

பலவிடங்களில் “think positive” மற்றும் “Take positivity in everything” என்று சொல்வதுண்டு. எந்த “பொருளிலிருந்தும் நன்மையை மட்டும் எடுத்துக்கொள்ள வேண்டும், தீயதை விளக்கவேண்டும். தீயதாக இருந்தாலும் நல்லதை மட்டுமே எடுத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்” என்று சொல்கிறார்கள். இது சாத்தியமா?

இதன் விளைவாக ” திரைப்படங்களை பார்ப்பதில் தவறில்லை! அதில் இருக்கும் நன்மையை மட்டும் எடுத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்” என்றும் ” யார் சொல்கிறார் என்ற பார்க்காமல் அவர் சொல்லும் கருத்தை மட்டும் பார்க்க வேண்டும்” என்றும் ” பிற மதத்து புத்தகங்களை வாசிப்பதில் தவறில்லை! அதிலிருக்கும் நன்மையை மட்டும் பாராட்ட வேண்டும்” என்றளவாக பல வாதங்கள் எழுகின்றன.

” எப்பொருள் யார்யார்வாய்க் கேட்பினும் அப்பொருள் மெய்ப்பொருள் காண்ப தறிவு” என்பதன் உண்மையான அர்த்தம் என்ன? Positive approach/think positive என்பது சாத்தியமா?

தாசன் அடியேன்!

 
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1 on June 25, 2020

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri Velukkudi Ranganathan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam

Sri:

Positive approach is good. Theeyadhai theeyadhu endru therindhu kolla vendum.

Then only you can do RISK MITIGATION

Nalladhu kettadhu bedham theriya vendum.

=>Kudithal nalladhu?
=>Cinema parthAl nalladhu?

Endru yavadhu solli vittAl?

Bhagavath Gitai kaetal Cinema pAkra aasai poidum.

Cinema oru kuppai. They show only drinking scenes, love, enemity nowadays.

ROMBA NAALA ENAKKU ORU DOUBT WHY SHOULD WE SEE OTHER’S LOVE?

Nowadays No perumal padam. No murugan padam etc

If we are constantly bombarded with negative energy dushta sanga dosham yearpadum.

Pattu therinjukattumey endrAl time aagidum.

Kadaisiyil theriyamaley poidalAm.

So let’s be careful and be in sath sangam always

Daily visit Dharma Sandeha once matter solved.

Our mind will go inside that.

Dasanudasan

on June 25, 2020

Adiyen swami. Danyosmi

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Swamy, adiyenin namaskarangal.

By acharya’s anugraham it is possible to see the positive in EVERYTHING. But what we see and how we extract is the key.

” எப்பொருள் யார்யார்வாய்க் கேட்பினும் அப்பொருள் மெய்ப்பொருள் காண்ப தறிவு” என்பதன் உண்மையான அர்த்தம் என்ன?From Srivatsan

மெய் பொருள் is Perumal. Whatever we see or hear must been seen in line with His teachings/ instructions as received from our Guru. If some random person (eg. a character in a movie) says something, if it is in agreement with what we have heard from our acharyan, then we should thank that person in our mind for reminding us of our acharyan’s words. So, positivity does not mean somehow extract some positive message from garbage source like cinema. The garbage remains garbage. But you use the opportunity to connect to the real positive which is acharyan’s message.

Then what should I do when I see some ‘அபத்தம்’ in a movie (or real life). Let us take this example. In the 60s and 70s, all heros in the tamil movie industry tried hard to present themselves as ‘good’ people. They will not drink or smoke on screen. And even in personal life if they had the habit they will try to hide it from the public. In the 80s the hero characers started driking and smoking for ‘style’ factor. Particularly drinking is shown in rare occassions. But after 2000 it is mandatory for every movie to have a song where the drunken hero puts one kuththu-dance, even if totally unrelated to the rest of the movie. This is because the movie financiers are the same people as liquor barons. So, such songs are good advertisement for them to lure more and more youngsters into drinking. Over the past 15-20 years they have had tremendous success in this approach. Now a days heros do not try to hide that they drink in their private life. In fact they claim this openly and boldly. (One popular hero even openly said his father introduced him to drinking when he was in class 10 or so). Then what will his admirers do?

Now, what is the positive message I take from this? The message is, “Yes, my Acharyan’s words are true. Kali-yuga is indeed a fast degrading age. Just in the past 20 – 30 years so much degradation has happened. Utterly low people are all assuming leadership roles and influence the life of others. It is not possible to fight against this force of kali. The best way is to take shelter of acharyan and Perumal and deeply strengthen my determination not to be born again”.

With this message, whatever ‘bad’ thing I have come across has had a positive impact on me – positive because it reminds me of my acharyan’s words / Perumal’s instructions.

Similarly we can do in other situations and see the மெய் பொருள்.

அடியேன் தாசன்.

PS: Let me use this opportunity to share a little more on this. We have an important responsibility to protect our children from the influence of these movies. Whether our children watch it not or not, they must be made aware of the potential danger of these movies, and the importance of sticking to acharyan thiruvadi (his instructions).

I happened to watch a movie called ‘Mission Mangal” which is a dramatised version of ISRO’s effort to send  satellite to Mars planet. Apparently it is a big achievement for ISRO for being two reasons: 1. very low budget; 2. first country to succeed in first attempt.

At the outset the screen play is very patriotic, encourages people to learn science and become scientists and ‘inspiring’…. kind of movie that will make everyone proud of our country. I am sure many parents may consider this movie a “must watch” for their children because it motivates them in academic interests and instils some patriotism. But unknown to the parents some poison is also sowed in the story line …. which is totally totally unwarranted.

  1. They hero scientists is upset that the weather is bad and the rocket can not be launched on time; guess what he does? he gets drunk; and he gets into a brawl in the metro. So, they are teaching our children i) when you are upset, you can drink ii) even scientists the intellectuals of the society get drunk; so there is nothing wrong about it. iii) if the hero is drunk because of genuine distress, it is okay to misbehave in public places and get into a brawl; he has the right to do so; we must sympathise with him. It is okay for us also to get drunk and do improper things when we are drunk.
  2. One of the respectable woman scientist’s daughter is at the pub late night. The mother takes the father to the pub, they also drink, dance and drive back with the daughter. Thus the constantly fighting father-daughter relationship is set right by the mother’s intelligence! So, the lesson conveyed for our children is, if you go to pub late night without telling your parents, it is not wrong on your part; rather, you parents should understand your needs and they should connect to you by doing the same non-sense.
  3. Another respectable woman scientist is introduced in the story as a person who is wakign up from the bed with one of her boy friends. 

So, this is the kind of role models that our movies are setting…. even a story line which could have been made so pure and nice by simply focussing on the academic rigour & perseverance of the scientists and the patriotism factor.

Many times in the movie they mention about past president Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam. But the characters they show in the movie are far from the impeccable role model Dr. Kalam was.

But we can not expect anything better from them. This is the way kali yuga is going to be… continuously worsening. We need to educate our children properly and protect them.

Anyways, there is one positive message for me from this movie: in the closing scences we hear the prime minister of the country speak in a public meeting: “In Ahmadabad, it takes Rs10 to go 1km by rickshaw; but our scientists have sent the satellite to Mars for paltry Rs6 / km”. If sending some gadgets to the next planet for a price of Rs 6 / km is so great, then how much more great is my acharyan’s anugraham to send me directly to Vaikuntha….. absolutely free…. not just free of cost…. but free of all sins!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

adiyen dasan.

Beautifully said Kambandasan Swami! We are living in Kali Yuga and as Devareer rightly said, we should know how to avoid the bad things and take only the good things that are preached by our Acharyar and Mahaans like our Velukuddi Swamigal. Even in this bad kali yuga, Perumal has made it easier for us to just utter His name and get the same benefit, our ancestors in Satya Yuga took thousands of years to achieve, through severe penance and austerities. 

adiyen dasan. 

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3 on June 26, 2020

Srimate Ramanujaye Namaha!

Very detailed discussions on how to avoid getting associated with bad things. Very true.

Just to add , Srivatsan swami, the concept of taking positive everything is applicable in circumstances when things happen beyond our control and we encounter situations.. then we should take the good from such situations..but as described above by vikram swami and Kamnbandasan swamy if the amount of negative content is very high (which is the case in kaliyuga)  it is better to skip it voluntarily.

Actually speaking with the amount of audios and videos Velukkudi swami and others are releasing( enpani, mahabhartam audio, Kinchit yuva vikas, Nyayam course, other upanysams live in youtube, in TV etc..) , there is no time to hear all of them, so in a way we dont have time to hear or watch other things..

Adiyen

 

on June 26, 2020

Beautiful Kambandasan & EnPaNifan Swamy. Sath Sangam always.

In fact time will not be there for other things beyond Sath Sangam.

Lets take we start reading Bhagavath Gita moolam, where is time for TV?

Srimad Bhagavatham?

Srimad Ramayanam daily new new vishayams on same old Ramayanam

Let’s say we want to get engaged “Vaaliya kondrsthu sariya?” Curiosity kelappi vidanum thats it

Thats how entire Mahabharatam started curiosity was created 5 men killed 100 men.

Slowly SriRam will pull us towards him

We do other work beyond sath sangam for name sake.

We should not allow lowlikam to impact our brahma vicharam.

Kindly note; while it is very very important to place ourselves in ‘good’ environment (eg. sat-sangam) and avoid ‘bad’ environment, just this is not sufficient.

What is more important is to cultivate the perspective of seeing everything in line with our acharyan’s/ guru’s / mahaans’ teachings and instructions.

Because, however careful we may be, just being in this world will place us in less favorable situations too. What will keep us safe in such circumstances is the ability to see things in line with the teachings / instructions.

For example, even if we fill our 24 hours with sat-vishayam and sat-sangam, still we come across news about problems at the border and problems of covid. Instead of getting carried away by the narration of the news media, we can see things in light of acharyas’ teachings. The border issue can be seen in line of Enpani audio on the importance of patriotism; the covid situation can be seen in light of the inevitableness of பிறப்பு-பிணி-மூப்பு-இறப்பு in this repeated birth cycle. And so on.

But if I fail to cultivate and practise this perspective, even keeping myself in ‘good’ environment may not be actually good; because, when I am not seeing things in line with the teachings, even in a vaishnava sanga I may be busy committing aparadham to everyone around. So, cultivating this perception is more important to keep us in our track of brahma vicharam.

adiyen dasan.

on June 27, 2020

Srimathe Ramanujay Namaha
Srimathe NArAyaNaya Nama:
Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri Velukkudi Ranganathan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam

Sri:

If we think the environment itself is created by Krishna there is no chance of aparAdham kroshna will take care

Teachings inline or offline , its the learning curve that causes the difference.

Periyava first sonnA puriyAdhu. Namma stage lerndhu dhAn yosippom

Konjam konjama dhAn puriyum

Firat thappu nu theriyardhu appuram sari nu padalam

Illa sari nu pattadhu thappu nu padalAm

To me i want to be honest and truthful to the max extent possible

Yamam Niyamam nu yoga angam solli irukku

So being honest in our perception is more important.

AvA yen adha sonna nu yosikkanum

IllAti namakkey sandhegam vandhidum

Tat vitti prani pAthena ia correct

but bad intensions good outside beahviour
Good intentions but raw (not so.socially acceptable) outside behaviour

Adiyen feel there is a difference

So inline or not is subjective.

Summa adiyen dasanudasan nu sollitadhu naalaey panivu vandhuduthu nu sollida mudiyadhu

Gold should be heated to be made as gold from.itsnraw form

Guru dhAn katAkshikkanum
Indha jeevanukkum nyAnam tharen nutu

Ivanukkum brahma sAkshAthKaram panni vekkaren nuttu

Dasanudasan

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