Namaskaram.
As per shastram, whether male / female are not expected to think of a married female / male. Azwars, in their pasurams, express their spiritual desire as நாயிகா பாவம். Sriman Narayanan has consorts. Is that correct to express spiritual desire as நாயிகா பாவம் on Sriman Narayanan who has consorts. Or shastram is not applicable in this case and anyone can follow this.
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