Namaskaram Swami

Adiyen would want to share a suggestion which I learned from one of Velukkudi Krishnan Swami’s  upanayasams and that is, in whatever situation we are presently in ( good, moderate or bad) it is there for a reason i.e to learn and overcome from it and to mold us to the right path herein if you take in case like ( good situation) then, when one praises you, then one of your Past Good Karma is going to end( Punyam) and herein a Saranagata needs to take into consideration that as krishna stated in the Gita about (Sukham-Dukham Same Kritva ), in brief to have “Vairagyam” As u said above:

By arguing i become a naaloorAn.
I know its incorrect but cannot hold it. Why not practice what Our beloved Sri Krishna has preached in Gita which he in Rama Avatara Followed to i.e chapter 10, 38 sloka 

( Among Secrets , I’m Silence),  The tatparyam of this is why to waste our blissfull energy in waste talks and speak out whenever necessary, always carry a smile on your face, Try to start of with Dhayanam for 7- 12 mins daily with talking, typing less and listening more of Sat Vishyams , the Admins can delete your Account but you will be only at a loss not them, Sri Hari has given us all such a beautiful opportunity by sharing,discussing and getting enriched with lot of Satv vishayams so why not to make it our level best to use this opportunity to increase our Bhakti, Gyana,and Vairagyam from Material things.

Adiyen Dasan