Viram swamy,
Perumal is the only Purusha; we are His stree is a philosopical truth.
He is the only original and completely independent person, therefore Purusha. We all are His expansions and are dependent on Him, therefore stree.
But that does not mean that the everyone has only female roles in our kainkaryam in Vaikuntha. There are male roles also. And there are other very important roles also. What gender is the grass that does the kainkaryam of making the surface soft for Perumal to walk? What gender is the bacteria that is engaged in the kainaryam of converting milk to curd for Perumal? They are also Vaikunthavasis, right?
எனவே அடியேன் ஆண் அல்லன், பெண் அல்லன் அலியும் அல்லன். எந்த கைங்கர்யம் கொடுக்கப்படுகிறதோ அதற்கு தகுந்த அடையாளம் ஏந்தி அந்த கைங்கர்யம் மூலம் அவருக்கு உவப்பு ஏற்படுத்துவதே ஆசை.
அடியேன்