Srimate Ramanujaya Namaha!
Namaskaaram, Swami.
Sometimes during major life decisions / undertakings , it seems there is some underlying selfishness, but because of our training and hearing sastras(upanyaasams) we find some opportunity to see the service/ kainkaryam that can be done if we take that decision. Or it could be vice versa, in opportunities majorly for service may have some scope for our selfishness like fame,good name etc.
So In such scenarios when there is possibility for both service and selfishness, how do we take the right decision? Ideally it should be 100% service oriented, but it is tough to gauge if that is the case while taking decision, and even if we intend so , whether we will remain so after taking that decision as well, is a big confusion.
Another angle is even if one is 100% service oriented if he decides to do a service beyond one’s capability or maturity, it will also affect him adversely, conversely one cannot neglect the service that Perumaal intends us to do.
So in this kind of “dharma sankatam” situation, how to know what is Perumaal’s desire and intention so that we do not act out of self interest?
Adiyen