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Varnashrama dharmam

Updated on February 10, 2023 in Karma
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10 on February 8, 2023

Adiyen swami,

Adiyen requests swami to clarify my dharma sanedha. As a daughter , i was in 1 caste, then i was married into some other caste, after few years of marriage, after so many struggles and because of swami ramanujar ashirvadh, i did samashrayanam last year . I used to ask swami upanyasam like Bhagavad gita, srimad bhagavatham, enpani etc etc. As per gita, lord krishna told that have to follow varnashram as per individuals birth. Now which I have to follow swami? As a wife, as a daughter in law, i couldn’t or not allowing to follow some things regard doing pooja or cooking things. Now what I could do?? I feel guilty for not following certain things. Whether lord narayana will get angry on me?? Am i not qualify for moksha in this jenmam?? Pls clarify my doubts swami. Its my humble request.

Adiyen aiswarya ramanuja dasi.

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Sundara Ramanuja dasan 4 on February 9, 2023

Srimath Varavara munaye namaha

👉 Why would narayana get angry on you ? You had samashrayanam. So, you are eligible for moksha .You will get moksham in this janma itself as you have ramanujar thiruvadi sambandham. So, don’t doubt your moksha.

👉 Caste is different from varna. You should follow the varna dharma of your husband’s family.

Adiyen Varavara muni Bruthya dasan 🙏

vikraminside on February 9, 2023

Swamy,

Caste is different from Varna agreed. Can one come back to Brahmin’s AchAram AnushtAnam after inter-caste marriage?

Assume IC couple’s daughter married to a Brahmin. So these as Sambandhis will become Brahmins? 🤔

Only daughter’s Gothram will change. This means all IC women allowed to marry a Brahmin? 🤔

Meaning all Brahmin men can marry IC women?

Please clarify. My mind is confused.

Is Brahmin a caste or VarnA?

“BrAmaNosya Mukham Aaseth” based on this upanishad vAkyam please tell me adiyen.

We should not set a wrong precedence that’s why am asking.

This is the reason, Swamy like Narasimhan are scolding our AchAryAs. EllAmEy allowedA?

Dasanudasan

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Sundara Ramanuja dasan on February 9, 2023

Brahmin is a varna.
After inter caste marriage, it is better to follow husband’s varna dharma rather not following any dharma

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vikraminside on February 10, 2023

Ok Swamy
Whatever
Adiyen should not have posted in this thread
Please forgive adiyen
Adiyen so stupid

BhAgavatha pAdha dhuli vechu adiyen vyAdhi guNa paduthikuren

Om Namo NArAyaNAya
Dasanudasan

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vikraminside on February 10, 2023

Om Namo NArAyaNAya
Om NamO Narayanaya
Om Namo NArAyaNAya

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vikraminside 0 on February 9, 2023

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri:

“because of swami ramanujar ashirvadh, i did samashrayanam last year .”

With AchArya Thiruvadi Bhalam & Guru’s AshirvAdham:
Why worry for Moksham? Ticket reserved. AchAryan will take care. After SamAshrayanam we all belong to Sri VaishNavA sect & our burden is transferred to Acharyan. We should make sure to follow AchAryan’s instructions as much as possible.

Above response over.
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Even in Sri Velukkudi Ranganathan Swamy’s Q & A show on Sri Sankara TV, one aged mAmi boldly said “We did inter caste marriage and it was BhagawAn’s Sankalpam, I am doing Rama nAma Japam”.

Why that aged elderly mami said inter-caste marriage to young Sri Velukkudi Ranganathan Swamy that too on public domain? What was her expectation? Should Ranganathan acknowledge other’s personal choices?

The reason am talking about age because they are the ones who should guide us. Budhi solla vEndiyavAlEy thappu pannA?

Why people are trying to spoil the practicing Brahmins? Illa inter caste marriage thappey kedaiyAdhA, dhayavu senju sollungo? I have a kid , i will also marry him to some other caste girl & fall at AchAryA’s lotus feets. Great escape.This idea is super!!!

Anyway he has Autism Spectrum Disorder kalyANam nu onnu anAley perusu 😁. Caste Avadhu kuppaiyAvadhu.

Dasanudasan

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vikraminside 0 on February 9, 2023

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha

I love my classmate. He is 40+ now. He is unmarried. He simply said “I want girl who likes Desikan’s Sampradayam”. Therefore he is unmarried till today!

He has property land house etc.

Seems no Brahmin girl like to follow Swamy Desikan’s footsteps.

He is one more Guru to me.

NyAnam, Bhakthi VairAgyam

Epdi vEnAlum vAzhalAm enbadhu oru vAzhkaiyA?

Dasanudasan

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vikraminside 0 on February 10, 2023

Adiyen Sorry for saying some stupid things.

Who am I to say ?

I have no rights whatsoever

Please forgive adiyen everyone.

Dasanudasan

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vikraminside 0 on February 10, 2023

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vikraminside 0 on February 10, 2023

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri Velukkudi Ranganathan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri:

Please Please Please forgive adiyen
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

avA manasu evlO Kashta patrukum

Perumal Sankalpam dhAn
Perumal Sankalpam dhAn

Adiyenai mannithu aruvla vEndum
🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇
Dasanudasan

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