Srimathae Ramanujayae namaha!
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan swamy thiruvadigala saranam!
Namaskaram swamy,
I remember in achariyars one of the upanyasam used to say “Girls should speak less only what is neccessary and needed (short and sweet)”.
Always try to follow this but not able to do.Sometimes not getting how to speak with others,way of speaking and answering unneccessaryly and that will cause some other issues.Swamy,how to develop that habit.
adiyen.
Mata,
In fact, way back, in one of the EnPaNi Swamy told us to just listen but we keep discussing in this forum. Technically we are doing as per our own nature. We can tweak a little bit not change our entire personality.
We can speak sweet words for other’s liking but if we don’t speak our mind we don’t do justice vto ourselves
“Sathyam Vadha”
To live like Swamy saying I personally require tremendous effort. Not just girls it applies to boys too.
Dasanudasan
Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Srimate Raamanuja Namaha,
One related past thread for reference
https://www.kinchit.org/dharma-sandeha/thread/practicing-proper-speech/
Adiyen
