You perfectly shared what’s happening in our relatives circle. My relatives didn’t get a bride for last 5 years due to IT Bgroup only they want. Don’t mistake me ” I heard they started searching in Converted Christian group due to 20+ girls didnt choose due to Non-IT, Little weight, etc… ! They are in the situation to get the Boy to get marry somehow – all parigaram, temple visit, etc….

*I meant girl wants IT guy only !

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe Sri Varaha Mahadesikaya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam
Sri:

See Swamy,
Adiyen like only fair girls only. VellaiyA irundhA romba pidikkum because my mother is fair but for Sampradayam married dark girl only.

Enna porutha varaikkum adhu compromise dhAn technically speaking but skin color etc will not stand as age passesby.

These personal preference etc will hold good only temporary basis. Real love between heart & mind matters.

When I say real love, not at the cost of Sampradayam.

If you want to love, love Iyengar / Iyer boy what’s wrong?

I know oldies will object above statement but instead of marrying inter-caste & losing our roots it’s better to marry within same caste to restore traditional practice

See Sampradayathula RUCHI irundhA why thavaru nadakkum?

If solli solli valakkala na, adhu yAr thappu? Namma thappu

Velukkudi keeps on saying:
“Both couple need to search Brahmam together”
“Girl need to was utensils, boy need to do ThiruvArAdhanam”
Even latest audio
“SambAdhiyam can be done together”

In latest marriage advertisement:
“Ponnu choice venumnu kaetta romba choosy nu soldrom”

“Payyan , appo en job preference? , VenAm da apuram unakku ponnEy kidaikkAdhu”

So, idhulerndhu enna theriyardhu?

Girls can choose
Boys should compromise

Enakku orey oru doubtu?
Adhu Eppadi yAra paathalum Husband nu thOnum? &
YAra PAthAlum wife nu thOnum? – before marriage

First adhuvey thavaru enna porutha varaikkum

Adiyen said okay at first time ponnu pAkura ceremony

Yenda Ella ponnungalum ponnu dhAney, enna da ungalukku difference?

Manasu onnu dhAney? Adhukku yedhu color codes?

Also, money only driving marriage?

Adhu enna Elite Matrimony?

Love vandha yedhu Elite?

Love between PanakkAran YEzhai varAdhA?

Edhu edhukko Kodi thookurAnunga
Elite Matrimony kku yaen Kodi thooka maatenguraaanunga?

Sari, If Elite is socially acceptable today
Why caste is Not acceptable?

So money discrimination can be accepted
Caste discrimination cannot be accepted?

Yaaru kitta kaadhu kuthureenga?

Both are social segregation right?

The personal preferences are “short-lived”.

We should educate our children

Dasanudasan

Like our media/newspaper 🗞️ we can write our views here. But our B group boys/bachelor’s facing lot of trouble for marriage. I bet in 2050 in every family there will be 1M community person integrated due to avoiding of B groups Boys by our Girls. Ivalunga thirundha matalunga… Namba Boys pavam thaan.

Christian groups ready to accept our B group Boys ! Family is happy that Boy got married instead of “Vetki thalaikunithal in relatives/surrounding” that’s the reality today. brhamana sangam/our achryas/jeeyars view on this very silent no views. Epadiyo potum nu vita Pola

Correct Swamy

By the way adiyEn forgot to mention one more thing here. varNASrama dharmam must be followed by all. Not only the brAhmana varNam. So the responsibility falls on each and every individual following sanAthana dharmam.

adiyEn